so despite me coming out as trans to my mom three months ago and continuing to refer to me as a girl SHE WAS NOT IN DENIAL?!?! So like shes just been refering to me as one because in her words "I didn't know how comfortable you were with others knowing, and either all of us know or nobody" since she didn't want to do like the whole if possible transphobe then don't talk about it because it didn't align with her and it felt like her own person going backwards. I just cant do like the medical stuff until I'm like almost 30 and have counseling ToT but fairs
