am i valid? tw: SU ! I 2 C 90 I D E (capatilized letters) my friend group at skl widend last year when we had a new kid, lets call her potato. so potato loves to hang out with a guy named racket. but racket is a bully to all of my friends. now obviously the other four of us feels uncomftorable, he makes jokes about our weight, faces, and anything else you could possibly pick on. so today i was fed up and confronted potato. I asked her why she still hangs out with Racket, even though he's rude and makes everyone feel uncomfortable. she proceeds to say, "You guys are overreacting! I'm turning 15 next week, and I think I would know how immature you all are." . "I'm not about to drop my friend just because he's rude to you." .. "If he's rude to me, I'll drop him, but I don't really care if it has to do with you." ... what? I tell her: "But he hangs around you all the time, and so do we! its common decency to drop him!" "look, *my real name*, if he's telling you to off your self, then come to me. otherwise it's not bullying." thats when i draw the line. I completely ignored her for the rest of the day, and now shes mad at me for that. my other friend also confonted her about it and she said (again) something along the lines of: "well its ok to make fun of someone if they don't end up offing them selves!!' Your telling ME to mature, but you say crap like this? Theres no way. Am I valid for ignoring her in this situation? Justifying bullying is never okay!
UPDATE: in class rn and im so done with her. we just got a dress code for homecoming and is convincing everyone not to go just because she doesn't want to. THE WORLD DOESNT REVOLVE AROUND YOU BABES