yap time I've been thinking (shocking, i know) and i'm not sure if just they/them really fits me anymore. I mean, I still like being referred to with "they", but at the same time, it feels a little... limited. I've been considering this for a little while, and I've settled on something. You can still use they/them for me mostly, but I'm also okay with she/her and ze/zir. But, while I don't really care how often you use "they" or "ze" when referring to me, if I start to notice you're only using "she" for me, watch your back. Lastly, I'm not really comfortable with he/him or it/its being used to refer to me, so please don't use either of those for me. tldr: I use they/ze/she now. and if you refer to me as "he" or "it", I WILL throw hands. that's all. bye for now! - Lou
