sept 15, 2026 so a few ppl noticed, i wasnt very vocal about it because i felt ashamed, but i was banned for three days BEFORE LUVLY SCRATCH TEAM TAKES THIS DOWN FOR "DISAGREEING WITH THEIR DESICION AND TRYING TO CONVINCE THEM THEYRE WRONG", this project isnt for that and is meant to be an apology, a place for me to set reminders for myself (and others), and to inform people on where ive been!! now onto my mssg... ⚝ usually when i update this proj, its to complain about an unfair mute, but this time, im being completely honest when i say i deserved to be banned. ive let it slip my mind too many times that this is a childrens site, and ive left comments that r def not child friendly. im very ashamed of myself for this. i made jokes with others who didnt seem to care, and it made me think it was okay to say stuff like that on here. its not, and ive learned my lesson from it. im working on improving myself and being more mindful, but please be patient with me and leave me reminders to ground me when i seem to lose myself. i dont want to be banned again, and i dont want to make ppl uncomfortable, which is what takes me to the next part of this note... ⚝ from my memory, i believe ive had like 3+ instances when ive been called out by people for my behavior. i dont mean to make anyone uncomfortable, and most times, the things i say arent directed to them, but i dont have anything agaisnt them for scolding me. actually, id even say im grateful to them for reminding me. though sometimes id wish theyd be more understanding in some ways and explain to me in a more refined manner, i should be grateful to them for trying to keep me in line. it doesnt feel good to be scolded, but instead of harboring feelings of resent towards them, i should take their comments as feedback to help myself grow to become a better person on this site. on that note, if something i say makes you uncomfortable, please politely lmk, and id be willing to talk with you. i never intend to hurt or stress someone out, so please give me a chance to clear myself up if necessary. moving forward... ⚝ i dont want this to happen again, and hopefully you dont either, so im gunna leave some reminders here. these arent just for me btw, and you dont have to, but itd be a good idea to try and keep these in mind so you dont end up like me sometime ago ⭒ scratch is childrens website. keep in mind some ppl you talk to will be younger. theres no way to know for sure, so always keep your comments children appropiate ⭒ some jokes r okay, but be mindful what you joke about and to whom. everyone reacts to jokes differently ⭒ this is all i can of atm ik theres a lot of great ideas i should add so tell me urs in the comments also almost everything you say is public so like keep that in mind thank you if you read it all, it means a lot to me!! hopefully ill only come by to edit the rules a few times, and not because i was banned again :')
alt @acidbunnyx its in my prf desc but here you know why its so important...other costumes r from past mutes :p ────୨ৎ──── okay so like this is the part where i stop apologizing and start setting standards for others. if you disagree with this and think something needs to change, tell me. im open to making edits anytime - if you call someone out on their behavior, dont be rude abt it. even if they were being rude to you or someone else, being rude to them like invalidates ur statement cus why r u being rude while tryna call someone out for being rude.. harassing a harasser wont fix anything yk - this is like a personal thing and idrc if you follow it im just so annoyed when ppl report ur comm and go "reported!" like okay..like its not harming anyone but like it pmo just report and move on. and usually when someone says that they get attacked which isnt cool but like dude u kinda asked for it - another more personal opinion but like if a message isnt directed to you, you dont have to (over)react to it. i get most msgs on scratch r public but that doesnt invite you to comment on everything, esp if its personal or meant to be between a certain few people. think of it like overhearing a conversation between some strangers and interrupting/making it abt you. i guess this mostly applies if ur being rude or intrusive abt it. be polite, and if they express that they dont want you to be apart of it, leave politely. its simple. thats all for now..thank you for reading!! discussions r always open in comms unless im muted because i got banned for a message i sent months ago banned - once for 3 days. lets keep it that way longest time muted - 86 hrs wth projects taken down - 2 (in the same day omg)
