why does my mom actually hate me shes always trying to be the victim in everything.... like tell me why i literally cant talk to her about how i feel about her and my dad without her saying shi like "sorry were such bad parents" shes always yelling at me and my sister for no reason.. like she literally got mad at me for eating a little bit of her ice cream and how my sister got math support (which was a mistake by the school) she always threatens me with like violence and other shi (ykwim) and always brings up past stuff she did which im pretty sure paying for me and my sister (food, clothes, health supplies) are what a mom should do wth and obviously i ask for things i want and she gets them but i make sure to express how appreciative i am and she always says that im never grateful and i never say thank u she lies to me and my dad and my sister a lot and always gaslights us idk what to do she never gives me privacy and when im on the toi let or showering she walks in and leaves the door open like wth ru doing... she always cusses at my n my sister and my dad + she always gets mad at himf or no reason can someone please help me cs i literally cannot do ts anymore sorry for the vent or wtv js had to get it out of the way