Disliking - contradictory labels - xenogenders - nounself pronouns - microlabels makes you queerphobic. If you think any of the above are "invalid" or "unreal" or "silly" or "fake", then you are a queerphobe. By saying that these are invalid, what you're doing is misunderstanding a queer identity, refusing and not learning about it, and making your ignorance a weapon against an LGBTQ+ person and painting them as the problem. You do this because you don't understand, and maybe don't even WANT to understand someone else's identity that differs from your own. You think its nonsensical. You think it's fake. All because it's something you're not used to. This is exactly what transphobic people do to trans people, what transmeds do to the "wrong" type of trans person, what homophobes do to gay people or lesbians. You claim to support LGBTQ people, but the second there's an identity that you're not used to, you throw the certain identities under the bus. You don't get to decide if certain queer people are valid or not. It's not your call. Either you support queer people, or you don't. So don't be queerphobic.
